The Impossible Dream

Wannabe Pastry Chef just ended Culinary school, 21yo from Spain
queerlyobscure: grrrlfever: asinineabsurditycomplex: What the fuck does it matter? It matters because growing up, we’re told we will be attracted to the opposite sex when we’re older, and all of our education and socialisation covers only this possibility. It matters because it promotes the idea that straightness is normal, and in contrast, queerness is not. Feeling like you’re not normal is obviously not good for mental health and general wellbeing. “The LGBTI community reports higher levels of depression, anxiety and other mental health problems with evidence suggesting they are 3.5 to 14 times more likely to attempt suicide than the general community.“ (Butler, 2011) It matters because 50% of LGBTQ youth experience a negative reaction when coming out to their parents. It matters because 26% of LGBTQ youth are kicked out of their homes when they come out. It matters because this, among other reasons, is why between 20 and 40% of homeless youth in the United States identify as LGBTQ. On top of this, it matters because coming out is an uncomfortable, awkward, and potentially terrifying experience. In our current society, coming out as queer means having to face the possibility of losing friends, family, your home, or even your life, and the fact that queer people have to go through this while straight people are safely assumed to be straight is a huge injustice. I would like to add that one does not simply come out once. One comes out to every new person they meet if the subject of romantic attraction and relationships comes up - and you’d notice how often it did if you had to have the nerve-wracking, stomach-twisting experience of mentioning your girlfriend every time and not know if that means you’re about to get a bad reaction that could range from slightly disdainful surprise to outright assault. Basically heteronormativity sucks because it makes it impossible for queers in same-gender relationships to have a normal fucking conversation with a new person without fearing for their safety.

queerlyobscure:

grrrlfever:

asinineabsurditycomplex:

What the fuck does it matter?

It matters because growing up, we’re told we will be attracted to the opposite sex when we’re older, and all of our education and socialisation covers only this possibility.

It matters because it promotes the idea that straightness is normal, and in contrast, queerness is not. Feeling like you’re not normal is obviously not good for mental health and general wellbeing. “The LGBTI community reports higher levels of depression, anxiety and other mental health problems with evidence suggesting they are 3.5 to 14 times more likely to attempt suicide than the general community.“ (Butler, 2011)

It matters because 50% of LGBTQ youth experience a negative reaction when coming out to their parents.

It matters because 26% of LGBTQ youth are kicked out of their homes when they come out.

It matters because this, among other reasons, is why between 20 and 40% of homeless youth in the United States identify as LGBTQ.

On top of this, it matters because coming out is an uncomfortable, awkward, and potentially terrifying experience. In our current society, coming out as queer means having to face the possibility of losing friends, family, your home, or even your life, and the fact that queer people have to go through this while straight people are safely assumed to be straight is a huge injustice.

I would like to add that one does not simply come out once. One comes out to every new person they meet if the subject of romantic attraction and relationships comes up - and you’d notice how often it did if you had to have the nerve-wracking, stomach-twisting experience of mentioning your girlfriend every time and not know if that means you’re about to get a bad reaction that could range from slightly disdainful surprise to outright assault.

Basically heteronormativity sucks because it makes it impossible for queers in same-gender relationships to have a normal fucking conversation with a new person without fearing for their safety.

(via thegayteen)

cityofplacidity: play-on-a-graveyard: hanari502: quidditchcapricious: all1sees: holmestuckvengers: darth-lesbatron: goldie-loxx: cheyennemorgan: admiralgoose95: It will happen. This would be the most bittersweet movie in the world. Oh my god. want i would cry I will cry myself into an early grave. OMG WHAT IF I’m tearing up just thinking about it oh my god and all the potterheads would just be like forty or fifty years old sitting in the movie theater with their kids and grandkids if you’re that old and we’ll all just be crying at the screen and we’ll all get wierd looks from our kids because there are like a thousand old people crying because professor snape said turn to page 394. and we’ll just all sob and hold each other I’ll bring the tissues.

cityofplacidity:

play-on-a-graveyard:

hanari502:

quidditchcapricious:

all1sees:

holmestuckvengers:

darth-lesbatron:

goldie-loxx:

cheyennemorgan:

admiralgoose95:

It will happen.

This would be the most bittersweet movie in the world.

Oh my god.

want

i would cry

I will cry myself into an early grave.

OMG WHAT IF

I’m tearing up just thinking about it oh my god

and all the potterheads would just be like forty or fifty years old sitting in the movie theater with their kids and grandkids if you’re that old and we’ll all just be crying at the screen and we’ll all get wierd looks from our kids because there are like a thousand old people crying because professor snape said turn to page 394.

and we’ll just all sob and hold each other

I’ll bring the tissues.

(via drop-dead-legs)

Reblog this if you AREN’T homophobic.

thewhaleridingvulcan:

shansdrumstick:

one-day-it-will-all-just-end:

that-awesome-winchester:

yourofficialvalentine:

Just want to see how many of my followers actually reblog this.

IT’S OKAY

TO BE GAY

I WON’T MIND

IF YOU LIKE YOUR KIND

IT’S OKAY

TO BE GAY

I’D STILL LOVE YOU

AND OTHERS WILL TOO

people are fine by me.

everyone should reblog this

for the gifs XD

this is so….. .__.’ *reblogs*

 

via laugh-addict

I’m lesbian

if you don’t reblog this unfollow me NOW

:D

(Source: flynnridersnose, via pryoslim)